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The Martha's Vineyard Times is a weekly publication.
October 6, 2005 - October 12, 2005 Edition
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Island
Wedding Ceremony and Reception Guide
By Joyce Wagner
Editor's
note: An abridged version of the following list was published in the
spring 2005 issue of Bride Guide.

The
Dr. Daniel Fisher House in Edgartown, an elegant venue for small
and intimate affairs. Photo Courtesy of Janet Heath of MV Preservation
Trust

The Island wedding season is conducive to outdoor celebrations.
Photo by Betsy Corsiglia

Vineyard lighthouses are magnificent backdrops for ceremonies
and photo opportunities. Photo by Leslie Look

Edgartown's Old Whaling Church, A grand place for grand weddings.
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Beach
Plum Inn and Restaurant
Kristin Burgess, 508-645-9454; www.beachpluminn.com;
info@beachpluminn.com
You can't beat Menemsha for sunsets. Add that and fabulous cuisine
to your wedding and you're at the Beach Plum Inn and Restaurant. With
a capacity of 50 to 250 guests, the Inn can host your gala event either
indoors or out. Ms. Burgess acts as on-site consultant and stays with
you throughout your big day. Great food created by their award-winning
chef complements the great views. Check out their web site for menus
and details.
Black Dog Tall Ships
Jean Heffernan, 508-693-1699; www.theblackdogtallships.com;
info@coastwisepacket.com
If your fairytale wedding involves billowing sails, sea shanties,
and the rhythmic creak of wood-on-wood, think about marrying on one
of the Black Dog's elegant tall ships. Anchored in Vineyard Haven
Harbor, these two romantic ladies elicit oohs and aahs from passersby
on Beach Road. In full sail, they are simply breathtaking.
Both ships offer catering and beverage service, or beverages can be
brought in. Jean Heffernan can assist in all the planning and will
supervise the loading of the boat when your supplies arrive. Arrange
for a crewmember to play guitar or concertina. Your guests can help
raise the sail or anchor, or just relax and enjoy the trip. Sea shanties
at no extra charge.
Also, consider a day sail for a rehearsal dinner, a farewell party
after the wedding, or to occupy your off-Island guests who are not
involved in the rehearsal.
The Shenandoah is a 108-foot, square topsail wooden schooner with
no auxiliary power. As such, your destination will be at the whim
of the wind gods and the expertise of Captain Robert S. Douglas, who
designed the boat. It can accommodate 35 guests for a day sail and
30 overnight.
The Alabama is a 90-foot, gaff-rigged wooden schooner with twin diesel
engines. She was built in 1926 and can accommodate 49 guests for a
day sail or 27 overnight.
Dr.
Daniel Fisher House
M.V. Preservation Trust, Janet Heath, 508-627-4440, ext. 12; www.mvpreservation.org;
info@mvpreservation.org
Perhaps the most elegant reception spot on the Island, Fisher House
was built in 1840 for Dr. Daniel Fisher - a whaling oil mogul. It
has since enjoyed many different incarnations, the most recent as
a beautiful restoration of a period piece. Now it is used mostly for
wedding receptions and other events.
A small wedding (up to 50) can be accommodated inside the house, with
room for a sit-down dinner, a bar, and dancing for $2,500 (space only).
Expand your guest list up to 150, and for $3,000 enjoy the house and
the terrace with a rented tent (not included). Weddings of 250 to
300 can be accommodated in a tent on the expansive lawn for $5,000
(tent not included). And you get the house and terrace.
Worth it? Absolutely. There are fireplaces in every room, built-in
bookcases, a commercially equipped kitchen, and a white-pillared porch
with dark drapes - the perfect setting for those photos. A staff member
will be at your beck-and-call for the entire event. And, the funds
support the upkeep and restoration of Fisher House and other historic
Island sites.
The ideal wedding is a ceremony at the neighboring Whaling Church
(also overseen by the M.V. Preservation Trust) and a reception at
the Fisher House. There are also many churches within walking distance.
Farm Neck Golf Club
Mia Rebello, 508-693-3057
Tie the knot at the first tee and kick off your marriage with a hearty
swing. You don't even have to be a golf fan to appreciate the amenities
of this Oak Bluffs venue. The outdoor wedding site teems with perennial
flowers and beyond lie acres of lush green. Thirty to 200 of your
closest friends and family will enjoy the personal touches the Golf
Club's staff brings to your ceremony and/or reception. "Everyone
who has a wedding here feels part of the family," Mia Rebello
boasts. And, as on-site consultant and coordinator, she'll do the
heavy lifting to make the planning of your wedding as stress-free
as possible. Prices start at $65 per guest with an $800 fee for the
tent, but packages are available.
Houses
of Worship
APOSTOLIC
Oak Bluffs
House of Prayer at Pequot Ave.
Pastor Marcia J. Buckley
508-693-9470
ASSEMBLIES OF GOD
Brazilian Church
Assembleia de Deus Nova Vida
Pastor Paulo Tendrio
508-696-0878; 1-508-333-1907
Pine Tree Road, Vineyard Haven
Vineyard Haven
Vineyard Assembly of God
The Rev. Gregory Bar
508-696-7576
1048 State Road
Community Evangelical
Assembly of God
Pastor John Noronha
508-696-9216
Unitarian-Universalist Society, 238 Main St., Vineyard Haven
BAPTIST
Aquinnah
Gay Head Community Baptist Church
The Rev. Roger H. Spinney
508-693-1539
Church Street
Edgartown
Faith Community Church
The Rev. Kenneth Campbell (evangelical and reformed)
508-627-8918
Meeting House Way, off Herring Creek, Katama.
Vineyard Haven
First Baptist Church
The Rev. Roger H. Spinney
508-693-1539
Spring and William Streets.
CHRISTIAN SCIENCE SOCIETY
Oak Bluffs
508-696-7369
123 New York Avenue
CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER DAY SAINTS
508-693-8642
State Rd., Merchant's Mart II, Vineyard Haven
CONGREGATIONAL
Edgartown
Federated Church
The Rev. Jerry Fritz
508-627-4421
South Summer Street
West Tisbury
First Congregational Church
United Church of Christ
The Rev. Thomas A. Roan
508-693-2842
State Road
EPISCOPAL
Edgartown
St. Andrew's Church
The Rev. Robert D. Edmunds
508-627-5330
North Summer Street
Vineyard Haven
Grace Church
The Rev. Donnel O'Flynn; The Rev. Alden Besse, pastoral
assistant.
508-693-0332
Woodlawn Avenue
Oak Bluffs
Trinity Church
The Rev. William Heuss
508-693-3780
Ocean Avenue
JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES
West Tisbury
Kingdom Hall
508-693-6356
48 State Road
JEWISH
Vineyard Haven
Martha's Vineyard Hebrew Center
Rabbi Caryn Broitman
508-693-0745
Centre Street
METHODIST
Chilmark
Chilmark Community Church
The Rev. Nancy Collins
508-645-3100.
Menemsha Cross Road
Edgartown United Methodist Church
The Rev. Nancy Collins
508-645-3100
Old Whaling Church.
Oak Bluffs
Trinity United Methodist Church
The Rev. Dr. Mary Jane O'Connor-Ropp
508-693-0589
Trinity Park
Vineyard Haven
Christ United Methodist Church
The Rev. Nancy Wnek.
508-693-0476
Church Street
NON-DENOMINATIONAL CHRISTIAN
Vineyard Haven
Lambert's Cove
Christian Church
The Rev. R. George Eli, Ph.D.
508-696-8339
Vineyard Haven
Christiantown Bible Church
Mark Guilford, pastor. 508-693-4031. Sunday: 6 pm worship
service; bible study series, Sermon series: New Life in Christ.
Grace Episcopal Church, downstairs chapel, Woodlawn Avenue
Cape Cod Church of Christ
Artie Shaffer, minister. 508-693-3122. Sunday: 5 pm worship
service; 6 pm bible study. 131 Fuller Rd., Vineyard Haven.
Union Chapel
508-693-5350 (summer)
Kennebec Avenue, head of Circuit Avenue, Oak Bluffs
RELIGIOUS SOCIETY OF FRIENDS
(Quakers)
Vineyard Haven
508-693-1834
Hillside Community Center
Vineyard Haven-Edgartown Road
ROMAN CATHOLIC
Edgartown
St. Elizabeth's Parish
The Rev. Michael R. Nagle
508-627-5017
Main Street
Oak Bluffs
Sacred Heart Parish, Our Lady Star of the Sea Church
The Rev. Michael R. Nagle
508-693-0342
Massasoit Avenue
Vineyard Haven
St. Augustine's Parish
The Rev. Michael R. Nagle
508-693-0103
56 Franklin Street
SEVENTH-DAY ADVENTIST
Sr. Deacon Litchmore Hall
508-693-5269
MV Hospital Chapel
UNITARIAN-UNIVERSALIST
Vineyard Haven
U.U. Society of Martha's Vineyard
The Rev. Judith Campbell
508-693-8982
238 Main Street
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First
Congregational Church of West Tisbury
Rev. Tom Roan, 508-693-2842; www.wtcongregationalchurch.org
Simplicity rules at this quaint country church at the corner of State
Road and Music Street in West Tisbury. This circa 1860 classic New
England white clapboard church with requisite steeple is the stuff
of old movies and little girls' dreams. This magnificent, quiet space
seats about 140 guests and the adjoining event room can accommodate
up to 50 guests for a small reception.
Check out the web site for terms and prices and call the hospitable
Rev. Roan about a year in advance. He also performs ceremonies off-site.
Grange Hall
M.V. Preservation Trust, Janet Heath, 508-627-4440, ext. 12; www.mvpreservation.org;
info@mvpreservation.org
For your rustic up-Island wedding, you can't find a better venue than
the Grange Hall. Just up State Road from Alley's, slightly past historic
Music Street, this West Tisbury post-and-beam barn will accommodate
up to 150 of your nuptial celebrants. Enjoy cocktails on the porch.
Show off those pre-wedding dance lessons on the antique wooden floor
while your caterer wheels out your cake from the large commercially
equipped kitchen. There's even a theater upstairs in case your outside
ceremony gets weathered out.
The M.V. Preservation Trust charges $1,500 for use of the hall, an
additional $250 for the theater, and there's always a staff member
on-site - just in case. Book 6 to 12 months in advance.
Harbor View Hotel
Tom Williams, 508-627-6364/Jennifer Tareila, 508-627-6363; Harbor_View.com
Head up North Water Street, past the historic white clapboard homes.
Suddenly the Edgartown Lighthouse comes into view, then the imposing
Harbor View Hotel, surrounded by expanses of cool green lawn. Now
imagine exchanging vows in the gazebo section of the hotel's wrap-around
porch. Could there be anything more idyllic?
Book your wedding at least a year in advance for a June, September,
or October event at this popular venue. Then enjoy the luxury of on-site
consultants and catering, a choice of event rooms that accommodate
crowds up to and over 300, a highly professional staff, and quality
food and beverages. You and your guests can stay at the hotel, a short
walk from the sights and shops of Edgartown. See the web site for
prices and other details.
Hot Tin Roof
Cory Cabral, 508-693-1137, ext. 12; www.hottinroof.com
Resplendent in three-dimensional Island-themed murals by Margot Datz,
the Hot Tin Roof is the premier performance venue on Martha's Vineyard
- which makes it ideal for large weddings (300 to 400 guests). There's
a huge inside space, a large courtyard outside, a stage, a permanent
dance floor, an excellent sound system, and parking galore. The atmosphere
is not formal, but this hot spot is great for your casual sit-down
or buffet reception.
Experienced event planner Cory Cabral will point you to the best Island
resources for your wedding accoutrements and catering is available
on-site.
Lambert's Cove Inn & Restaurant
Scott Jones, Kell Hicklin, 508-693-2298; www.lambertscoveinn.com;
lambinn@gis.net
Book your wedding in this lovely English Country-style inn and enjoy
your choice of beautiful sites for your nuptials. Walk down the Bridal
Path lawn, lined with floral gardens. Exchange vows in the gazebo.
Trade rings before the fireplace in the comfortably elegant library.
Or hold your ceremony on the beach at Lambert's Cove and ride a horse
and buggy back to your reception at the inn. The entire inn and its
staff will be dedicated to you and your guests for a memory-building
occasion. In fact, after 23 years of weddings at the inn, former brides
and grooms are now returning to celebrate anniversaries. Package deals
are available.
Lighthouses (Gay Head, East Chop, and Edgartown)
Ree Jutras-Kuser, 508-939-9155; ree@vineyard.net;
www.marthasvineyardhistory.org
What could be more romantic than getting married in the shadow of
one of the Island's historic lighthouses? Picture gentle ocean breezes,
the hues and fragrance of lush beach roses, and fabulous water views.
Just imagine the pictures! Although receptions are not allowed, each
of the lighthouses offers a unique experience for the ceremony. Call
Ree Jutras-Kuser for prices and details.
The Gay Head Lighthouse boasts the largest grounds of the three. Overlooking
the Gay Head Cliffs in Aquinnah, there's plenty of room for chairs
for your guests. You can exchange vows on the grounds, inside on the
first floor, or on the catwalk at the top. The latter offers the smallest
space - the bride and groom outside, and the officiant in the doorway.
The East Chop Lighthouse in Oak Bluffs allows ceremonies inside, but,
again, the space is very limited. A small amount of parking is provided
nearby, and the views of Nantucket Sound to the east and Vineyard
Haven Harbor to the west are spectacular.
The Edgartown Lighthouse allows receptions on the grounds only. Since
it's not fenced in like the other two, it's not as private. Parking
is public and not too close by and chairs are not allowed on the grounds.
That said, it's still a fabulous site for a ceremony. Set out on a
small peninsula on Nantucket Sound and punctuated by rosa rugosa (beach
roses), the romance and photo ops are worth a bit of inconvenience.
Many couples arrange for their ceremony at the lighthouse and reception
at the nearby Harbor View Hotel. It's walking distance, solves the
parking problem, and is a great reception site to boot.
Mansion House
Doris Clark, 508-693-2200, ext. 106; www.mvmansionhouse.com;
doris@mvmansionhouse.com
Your small wedding need not be any less elegant for size. The brand
spanking new Mansion House Hotel, in the heart of Vineyard Haven is
perfect for a small affair of 60 or so guests. The scenic cupola deck
is available for ceremonies and the resident restaurant, Zephrus,
will cater your reception with epicurean delights. Buffets start at
$35 per person.
A real draw for a small wedding is the hotel's proximity to the shops
and sites of Vineyard Haven - almost everything is within walking
distance. The amenities of the hotel - pool, spa, shops, etc. - make
it a fun weekend for guests and wedding party. In fact, according
to on-site coordinator Doris Clark, many brides treat their bridesmaids
and family females to a pre-wedding "Spa Party" - an all-day
event, also catered by Zephrus. And, there are 32 rooms, including
some suites, available for guests to stay in.
Old Whaling Church
M.V. Preservation Trust, Janet Heath, 508-627-4440, ext. 12; www.mvpreservation.org;
info@mvpreservation.org
How much more luck can you put into a ceremony than when you exchange
vows in a church that's accommodated weddings since 1843. That's a
lot of happy couples. And, if light and music are large components
of your ceremony, you're in for even more kismet.
The Old Whaling Church in Edgartown is gifted with a 15' x 28' stage,
high ceilings and huge windows. It doubles as a performing arts space,
so not only is it bright and airy on the gloomiest days, but the acoustics
are phenomenal. As if that's not enough, there's a perfectly tuned
Steinway grand piano on the stage and a newly restored pipe organ
in the choir loft.
The church seats 500, but because of the center aisle and the configuration
of the church, smaller crowds can be accommodated without it feeling
sparse. A fee of $500 covers a two-hour ceremony, a one-hour rehearsal,
and a greeter who will allow only guests to enter, keeping your ceremony
as private as you'd like. Officiant not included.
Sailing Camp Park
Chuck Downing, 508-693-6777; chuckdowning7@yahoo.com
Another economical choice for your Island wedding is Sailing Camp
Park. Owned by the Town of Oak Bluffs and managed by the MV Conservation
Commission, it affords beautiful views of Lagoon Pond and a 50- x
30-foot function hall, complete with a large kitchen and stone fireplace.
Imagine exchanging vows atop a hill, overlooking the calm waters of
the Lagoon, sailboats just visible in the distance. Afterwards, your
guests gush about your wedding attire and the beauty of the ceremony
while munching appetizers in an idyllic setting. Then you all proceed
into the rustic Mainstay Building for dinner and dancing.
Sailing Camp Park is rather bare-bones. There's no on-site consultant
(although Chuck Downing will be happy to make suggestions) and catering
needs to be arranged with an outside source, but the natural beauty
of this venue is well worth the effort.
Phone or e-mail Chuck for rates.
The Tabernacle
M.V. Camp Meeting Association, Bill McConnel/Donna Stewart, 508-693-0525
If you've ever been to Oak Bluffs's Methodist Campground, you can
probably imagine how romantically quaint it would be to unite in the
Tabernacle, surrounded by all those Hansel and Gretel cottages. When
it's available, the Tabernacle can accommodate an absolutely huge
wedding (it seats up to 2,000 for concerts) and reception. There are
not a lot of amenities - use of a kitchen would have to be worked
out with the nearby Methodist Church - but there's a large stage for
a big orchestra and room for dancing.
Book this venue the moment the ring is on the engagement finger. Summer
concerts and events take precedence, so availability is very limited.
Enlist the aid of one of the Island's great event consultants for
all the rest. It's kind of unwieldy to wed there, but there is the
inimitable setting.
Union Chapel
M.V. Preservation Trust, Janet Heath, 508-627-4440, ext. 12; www.mvpreservation.org;
info@mvpreservation.org
Imagine getting married, bathed in a golden light. The yellow stained
glass of the Union Chapel's cupola casts a warm glow over the entire
church interior. And, because the hand-caned chairs are freestanding,
your ceremony venue can be configured to almost any layout. You can
even get married in the round!
Union Chapel, at the top of Circuit Avenue in Oak Bluffs, was built
as a "more worldly" (than the Methodists) interdenominational
church in 1870. The acoustics are great, and a pipe organ and Steinway
grand piano await your favorite musician for that all-important music.
A fee of $500 earns you a two-hour ceremony, a one-hour rehearsal,
and the services of church sexton Richmond Greene (who also caned
the chairs) to help out. The church will accommodate 200 guests on
the floor and another 185 in the balcony. Reserve 6 to 12 months in
advance. Officiant not included.
Wesley Hotel
Peter Martell, 508-693-6611; www.wesleyhotel.com
Whether your tastes are shaped by the recent turn of the century or
the previous one, you'll find a charming, economical venue for a smaller
wedding and reception at the Wesley Hotel. Centrally located right
on the harbor in Oak Bluffs, the Wesley is a sweet Victorian lady
with hospitality to spare. Get married on the front porch looking
out over the harbor, in front of the fireplace near the piano in the
genteel lobby, or exchange vows at one of the nearby beaches or churches
and treat up to 60 guests to a warm, but economical, reception at
the hotel.
Call to reserve at least six months in advance for a "high-season"
wedding. Although there is no on-site catering or consultant, Peter
Martell will be happy to provide recommendations.
Winnetu Resort
Michelle Gannon, 508-627-4747; www.winnetu.weddings.htm;
m.gannon@winnetu.com
South Beach just down the path? Catering by the exceptional Lure Restaurant?
A ceremony with an ocean view? Holding your wedding and reception
at Winnetu Resort? Brilliant!
Michelle Gannon will act as your guide from start to finish in arranging
your wedding in this superbly scenic venue. Lure Restaurant will accommodate
up to 150 guests for a sit-down dinner or move your reception outside
to double that number. Guests can stay in their choice of 55 available
suites with either kitchenettes or full-sized kitchens, and can walk
Winnetu's own private path to South Beach.
Still not convinced? Check out their web site. Brilliant!
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